“The House Don’t Fall When the Bones Are Good.”

Do you remember the game “Red Rover?” “Red Rover Red Rover, we DON’T call the enemy over.” It was one of my favorite games to play during recess. We would all line up in our two rows and call out players to “come over” until the teacher yelled for us all to line up &Continue reading ““The House Don’t Fall When the Bones Are Good.””

Wild & Crazy – But lots of FUN!

The other day I was on the phone with my sister and I could hear her house or lack of hearing anything from her house other than her classical music playing in the background while she reads and drinks a glass of wine.  Now here is what she hears from my house – running, screaming,Continue reading “Wild & Crazy – But lots of FUN!”

When will your family be enough?

One of my biggest frustrations is when I hear, “My wife never met my needs, so I had an affair” or “My husband was never there for me or told me I was beautiful.” This is such a weak way of thinking and going about life. People like this need to grow up and understandContinue reading “When will your family be enough?”

Customer Temper Tantrums

What is up with the way people react to the word “NO”? Every time I am put in a position to uphold to a policy the first response I get lately is “Your treating me less than human” or “Your treating me as a 3rd class citizen” – What? Why is it that when peopleContinue reading “Customer Temper Tantrums”

Choose to love the one you’re with.

Do you want to know what can really get me on my soap box? When people say “Oh, we just fell out of love.” I’m sorry – okay, not that sorry – but that is total BS. “They stopped taking me out.” “They stopped telling me I’m beautiful.” Okay, but what about taking personal responsibilityContinue reading “Choose to love the one you’re with.”

Goodbye My Friend – I Love You and Miss You

I know I have written about first impressions and we all know how important those and first encounters are. The way I met Ashley wasn’t the usual way to meet your soon to be best friend. It was freshman year in high school and her boyfriend was causing some issues in English class. I calledContinue reading “Goodbye My Friend – I Love You and Miss You”

Focused Eyes

How do you have it all? This is not a “Have it all” in terms of money, advancement at work, recognition, well-kept house, perfect marriage, well behaved kids, or an unlimited bank account. It’s a good job that allows me to pay the bills, but yet one that I enjoy doing, a husband that standsContinue reading “Focused Eyes”